Start where you are — and build from clarity
Little Tools. big relief.
Consider this your stash of free tools and first steps toward a home that practically runs itself. Real-life resources to help you untangle the mess, find your rhythm, and feel a little more like you again.
Because when home flows better, everything else does too.
Know what your home is telling you
The H.O.M.E. Pulse
You run a team, a practice, or a company with systems that keep things flowing.
But at home? You’re probably running on caffeine, chaos, and calendar reminders that ping when you’re already late.
Just like a patient’s pulse, your home has vital signs. It’s time to check your home’s vitals — starting with The H.O.M.E. Pulse— a quick free assessment that reveals how healthy (or overworked) your systems really are.
Doing it all isn’t the same as doing well
Role audit
If your job title list includes CEO of Everything, Director of Family Logistics, Head of Maintenance, Facilities Manager, Lead Crisis Negotiator, Snack Distributor, and Finder of Lost Shoes — this one’s for you. The Role Audit helps you map out all the roles you’re carrying (and the ones that somehow snuck in when you weren’t looking). You’ll spot what’s working, what’s draining, and what can be lovingly handed back to someone else.
Time to lighten the load and feel more like you again.
When Things Get Sticky, Don’t Stay Stuck
A Tool to
Clear the Sap
Every home gets “sap” — those sticky moments when routines break down, tensions rise, or tiny frustrations keep repeating. Sap is normal, but it slows your family down. This tool helps you notice it sooner and clear it faster.
Inside, you’ll use the STU Card (Spot → Talk → Unstick) — a simple rhythm for naming what feels sticky, talking about it without blame, and taking one small step to get unstuck. Families can jot down the "Sticky List" or sap as it appears, then use the STU steps to work through it together. Simple, memorable, and designed for real-life moments when things get… well, sticky.
